Thursday, June 18, 2009

"I Don't Like My Teacher Because She Has a Funny Voice"

That was my 3 year old's reasoning this morning as I dropped her off at preschool for her 4th day. She really tries not to go every morning; she only goes on Tuesday and Thursday. "Mommy, I will miss you", "My teacher is mean because she makes me rest my eyes", whatever she thinks will get me to keep her home.

I am not sure what is going on, typically she is a very social person and loves to play. Dh and I have talked and decided it could be a number of factors from there being so many children, to her not being used to a schedule. Whatever it is, it just needs to stop. I really need her to go to school. As I am getting rounder and rounder, and more tired I need these two days to let my body rest. As she gets older, she needs more socializing, and gets bored with me during the day.

I will give it until July, and then I suppose we need to reevaluate what is working and what is not.

Friday, June 12, 2009

Closet Woes

So, I just went through my "closet". I put closet in quotes because A: its the size of a very small kitchen pantry, maybe two feet wide and two feet deep; and B: because it has become the "quick-throw-it-in-and-slam-the-door-before-it-spills" space for all things sewing, crafting, and other that has been banished from my life for now.

Anyhoodle, I found that I have a little over 20 different types of fabric in varies amounts of yardage waiting for me to sew something up. Problem is, that all these fabrics were bought with the intentions of sewing actual clothing items; PJ's, trousers, blankets, shawls, etc., so not the cute fabrics used to make needle rolls and tote bags like I had planned for my etsy. Blaahhh.

For now though, my Brother sewing machine has tension issues and I guess it needs a massage as bad as my preggo back. Sad thing is, chances are, I will be massaging its tension before more achy back gets some relief!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Me Domesticated.

Lately I have been off the blogger radar and there are many reasons.

First, as you know I am pregnant with surrogate twins. A boy and a girl. This in and of itself is enought to keep me tired and off the blogosphere. The fatigue and body aches keep me boudn to comfy areas like the couch and bed, and until recently I kept my laptop in one place not allowing it its full roaming potential.

Second, I have been trying to be more domestic for my daughter and husband. Trying to keep up with cleaning, cooking, and raising my baby girl. It sure isn't as easy as I thought, especially with being pregnant.

I have been knitting a lot, and watching cooking shows and cooking new things. Lo and I have been to the Zoo this year quite a few times since we bought our membership. That is always fun of course.

Mainly though, I just haven't felt too much inspiration to write about. I bought these books to help spark something, but then swiftly lost them in the clutter in my office. Go figure. I suppose when I get to the office clean up I will become an awesome blogger. 'Til then, you can enjoy my silly little stories and vast space between posts.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

MIA

Yes, I have been missing in action for awhile now, and not to point the finger or anything, but it's these twins! Seriously, growing them inside me is taking every ounce of time and energy out of me! And with the recent bleeding last night, I am seriously nesting it out on the couch today. Hope you are all doing well, enjoying the weekend, and spending time with loved ones! I'll be back soon, I promise!

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

I Need A Kidney Now

Not me, but someone's husband, someone's bestfriend, someone's son. Please check out this website I Need A Kidney Now if you or anyone out there that you know can help this man, please pass this along. Heck, it would be great to pass this along by posting it anywhere you can! The more people hear, the more likely he will get the kidney he needs! I am his correct blood type, but am currently using my uterus to help someone else, and cannot do both! :)

Monday, January 26, 2009

A Path to Christ Begins With a Few Steps.

I went to church this morning, actually set my alarm to make it in time. I haven't gone in a while, and was excited to be there. Hubsy stayed home, and to my shock it didn't even effect me.

See, in my home growing up we didn't go to church, but GOD was a HUGE presence in our lives. And by huge, I mean that my mom was a born again Christian, could speak in tongues, and at a very young age took us to bible study with her. We were taught about the relationship we could have with Jesus, a loving, strong, and faithful bond, and even though my mom stopped speaking in tongues and going to bible classes as we got older my faith still stayed with me because the foundation was so strong.

Hubsy on the other hand, grew up being made to go to church every Sunday and was taught a religion, not a relationship. I am not saying this is wrong, but it doesn't mesh well when put together with mine.

So here is how a typical Sunday would go. I would get up, wake hubsy 3 or 4 times reminding him about church. We would go, sit down and I would feel the spirit fill me and then I would look over at him. Sitting there with his arms crossed tightly, not singing or acting involved, he totally smooshed my "Christ buzz". I would begin to worry why he wasn't feeling what I was feeling, would he also be like this. Would the man I chose to spend my life with decide he didn't want Christ to be a part in our lives? So, I simple stopped going to church and stopped asking him to go with me.

Then last week I had a great conversation with an old friend. She has recently been going to church where she lives, getting involved, and worshipping and she gave me some advice. She said, "You have to do it for yourself, even if you go alone. Make this about you and GOD, not your husband. You will change, and your husband will eventually follow." She talked about how it took a year of her faithfully going with the kids, but her husband has followed and began to worship and reflect on his own now. It was then that everything clicked in my mind, and I decided to try again.

Everything was working against me this morning, I woke up and got ready to leave only to see that the first morning service started 15 minutes before I had gotten out the door. I decided to go to the second service. Then, I started to not feel well (being pregnant can do that to you) I was tired, and began to rationalize laying back down. I told myself this was about me though, and I needed to go.

Once there I found a seat with not too many people around and made myself comfortable. I sang along and greeted those around me, slowyly feeling myself get back into the groove, when all the sudden a group of 5 or 6 moved into my row, and sat right in the seat next to me. Great, now I am sitting by strangers and I cannot be myself and let go. Phooey.

I did my best to listen, and actually began taking notes. At the close of service we were singing and inviting people to come forward. My feet began walking before I had time to think and there I was, in the front row singing and crying. The pastor came over and I let it all come out. I told him of how I was in and out of religion, making committments and then falling to the wayside. How this time I want to make it work, want to devote my life to GOD, to make it a priority, and be accountable for my Christianity. After the singing was over, the pastor announced all of us at the front, some prayer requests, and some like me wanting to belong. I went back to my chair and the man, the stranger who sat so close to me, smiled and shook my hand. "I've been there before, stay strong and pray. GOD will be here"

Once service was over I was approached by many women, inviting me to MOPS, and Sunday bible study. One woman I met even lived across from me when I was two years old and knew my mother. It is a strange web Jesus plans for our lives. I strange and interesting web.

Tonight I started reading my new bible (gift to myself for the committment) and found a passage that was highlighted in today's message on meaningful relationships. I liked it alot and decided to post it here, thus starting "Scripture Sundays". Please feel free to read it and post any thoughts or comments on your mind.


Romans 12:9-21 (New King James Version)

Behave Like a Christian

9 Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good.
10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;
11 not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord;
12 rejoicing in hope, patient in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer;
13 distributing to the needs of the saints, given to hospitality.
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.
15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.
16 Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.
17 Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. 18 If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.
19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,”[a] says the Lord.
20 Therefore

“ If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
If he is thirsty, give him a drink;
For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.”[b]


21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Lyrical Teusday

My sister means the world to me, and I hope she knows that. Lately, things have gotten way messed up for her, and I know she is using alcohol to cope and ease her fear and pain. She is surrounded by people that love her though, and understand why she needs this time. I've been there too. This song is dedicated to her, from me, to tell her I will always be here, and that when she is ready to find herself again I will still be here waiting. :)



"Sober"
P!nk


I don't wanna be the girl who laughs the loudest
Or the girl who never wants to be alone
I don't wanna be that call at 4 o'clock in the morning
'Cause I'm the only one you know in the world that won't be home

Ahhhh-Ahhh, the sun is blinding
I stayed up again
Oh, I'm finding
That's not the way I want my story to end

I'm safe up high,
Nothing can touch me
Why do I feel this party's over?
No pain inside
You're my protection
But how do I feel this good sober?

I don't wanna be the girl that has to fill the silence..
The quiet scares me 'cause it screams the truth
Please don't tell me that we had that conversation
'Cause I won't remember, save your breath 'cause what's the use?

Ahhhh-Ahhh, the night is calling
And it whispers to me softly, "come play"
I am falling
And if I let myself go, I'm the only one to blame

I'm safe up high,
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?

Comin' down, comin' down, comin' down,
Spinnin' round, spinnin' round, spinnin' round
Looking for myself,
Sober
Comin' down, comin' down, comin' down,
Spinnin' round, spinnin' round, spinnin' round
Looking for myself,
Sober

When it's good, then it's good
It's all good 'till it goes bad
'Till you try to find the you that you once had
I have heard myself cry, never again!
Broken down in agony
Just trying to find a friend
Ohhh

Whoahhh

I'm safe up high,
Nothing can touch me
Why do I feel this party's over?
Whoahhh
No pain inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?

Whoahhh

I'm safe up high, nothing can touch me
Why do I feel this party's over?
Why do I feel this party's over?
Whoahhh
No pain inside, you're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?
Why do I feel this party's over?

Will I ever feel this good sober?


I love you sister.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Panic Is Setting In

I have been without a full time job for over 3 months now, and panic is beginning to set in. When we bought this house last year, both hubsy and I had good full time jobs. We worked for the same company, he making over $2000 a month, and me making over $1000 a month. This allowed us to pay our house payment of $1200 and all of our bills and still have some money left over. Now, we are struggling, I cannot find a job, and I am starting to panic. I do not know if we could sell this house without losing money in this economy so we could move to a smaller place or an apartment.

I had been planning to use some money to rent a booth at the Baby Expo in Saint Charles and get more business to make more money to contribute to my family. However the money had to be spent to get me a new computer when my old one, full of all my business files and everything decided to stop powering up. So I had to buy a new computer, and granted I got it on clearance, but still now my advertising budget is completely gone.

I feel like my world might be crashing now.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

The World Revolves Around Me

It is true! At least in my mind, the world revolves around me.

When I was young, my mother always said, "The world does not revolve around you, contrary to what you think." I thought she was crazy, and was always insulted by this statement. Of course she didn't really think I thought that! I mean come on, Me? I am the most empathetic and sensitive person I know. I constantly think of others before myself. However as of tonight, I realize that what my mother accused me of was correct.

I do in fact believe the world revolves around me.

It's not like I think it on purpose though. I just seem to not realize that when hubsy is reading a book, it is not the best time to sit next to him and talk about what we could do to fix up the house. When I am watching tv, and want a drink, of course I think that hubsy will stop what he is doing in the room even further from the kitchen and get me a drink because I asked. Where did this "queen" complex start.

It is even worse with my thoughts. I will have a conversation with someone and then later remember the conversation, and begin speaking again, at the very sentence I left off in my mind. Most of the time this sentence does not usher in what I was thinking about and people end up looking at me and being confused because they do not remember that we were talking about the thing earlier, or I may even leave out the thing I was talking about. It's as if my thoughts are the only thoughts, and of course they are what everyone else is thinking of too.

Silly, I know.

Anyhoo, I figured this all out tonight when I once again interrupted hubsy with talk about what to do around the house. He was reading his book, and I just took no notice and sat down next to him and started talking. His face fell and he closed his book. It was then that I realized my selfish behavior was not only partially - ok totally - annoying, but it was hurtful to him to think that I really didn't care about what he was choosing to do and wanting to do. That I just assumed I was more important. I do not want to do that again.

Another thing he told me was that the other day, when he felt he was finally opening up and sharing something with me about his book and I interrupted the conversation and talked about something I thought about, and left the room, it really really hurt him and disouraged him from opening up again. I am completely guilty of that, and I really want to nurture his growing communication, and keep us moving forward so tonight, I apologized when I caught myself, sincerely apologized and I think he understands.

We both have something to work on, and will both help each other work on our faults; his bad communication, and my willingness to believe that I am the sun and everything else revolves around me. At least we both have faults, and that is what I love about us.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Chicago

We are in Chicago right now, arrived last night. We came in for the surrogacy transfer, and will be leaving tomorrow.

This is the first time I have ever been to Chicago, and let me tell you the view is fantastic! We are staying at the Hilton Garden Suites and are on the 18th floor! Can you believe it! Crazy!!

The transfer was this morning and went so quickly and smooth, I am convinced there is a little boy and girl growing as we speak!

I will update later with pictures and more fun things we did on this great 3 day vacay!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Lyrical Tuesday

This past week I have been having lots of different emotions and I couldn't really decide which song to post, so I am posting both.


"I Hate This Part"
PussyCat Dolls

We're driving slow through the snow
On fifth avenue
And right now radio is
All that we can hear

Man we ain't talked since we left
It's so overdue
It's cold outside
But between us
It's worse in here

The world slows down but my heart beats fast right now
I know this is the part where the end starts

I can't take it any longer
Thought that we were stronger
All we do is linger
Slipping through our fingers
I don't want to try now
All that's left is goodbye to
Find a way that I can tell you
I hate this part right here
I hate this part right here
I just can't take your tears
I hate this part right here

Everyday seven takes of the same old scene
Seems we're bound by the laws of the same routine
Gotta talk to you now 'fore we go to sleep
But will we sleep once I tell you what's hurting me

The world slows down but my heart beats fast right now
I know this is the part where the end starts
I can't take it any longer
Thought that we were stronger
All we do is linger
Slipping through our fingers
I don't want to try now
All that's left is goodbye to
Find a way that I can tell you
I hate this part right here
I hate this part right here
I just can't take your tears
I hate this part right here

I know you'll ask me to hold on
And carry on like nothing is wrong
But there is no more time for lies
Cause I see sun set in your eyes

I can't take it any longer
Thought that we were stronger
All we do is linger
Slipping through our fingers
I don't want to try now
All that's left is goodbye to
Find a way that I can tell you

But I gotta do this
I gotta do it
I gotta do it
I hate this part

I gotta do it
I gotta do it
I gotta do it

I hate this part right here
I hate this part right here
I just can't take these tears
I hate this part right here

*****The second one*****



"Gotta Be Somebody"
Nickelback

This time, I wonder what it feels like
To find the one in this life, the one we all dream of
But dreams just aren't enough
So I'll be waiting for the real thing, I'll know it by the feeling
The moment when we're meeting, will play out like a scene
Straight off the silver screen
So I'll be holding my breath, right up 'til the end
Until that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with

Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that
Cause nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

Tonight, out on the street, out in the moonlight
And dammit this feels too right, it's just like déja vu
Me standing here with you
So I'll be holding my breath, could this be the end?
Is it that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with

Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that
Cause nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

You can't give up, (when you're looking for) a diamond in the rough (cause you never know)
When it shows up, (make sure you're holding on)
Cause it could be the one, the one you're waiting on
Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me, oh

Nobody wants to do it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there
Nobody wants to be the last one there
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there

Monday, January 12, 2009

Venting Session

I know to many people I am "complicated", with many moods, personalities, and faces. To me, I just think I am multi-faceted like a diamond. Smooth sometimes, beautiful mostly, and sometimes when the time warrants it, I can cut through glass.

Either way, I cannot change the fact that my mood can change on a dime, like it did this morning.

See, most of the time I am very flexible, can be spontaneous, and roll with the punches. I mean, if you show up with a suitcase and a tank of gas count me in for the road trip. BUT. . . If I have something going on, and have a well thought out plan with time management included and you through in a kink I get so pissed off and everything that happens following that kink is DIRECTLY your fault and you will feel the blame.

Case in point.

Today I have a newborn session at 1, and I had my plan thought out. My alarm was set to give me optimum time around the house for cleaning, showering, and getting my equiptment together. This plan was based on my hubsy getting LO up and taking her to daycare this morning.

That was the plan.

However, this morning when I started to stir at 8:30 I rolled over to view my daughter's bed and she was still there snuggled in her covers. I bleary eyed stared at the clock to make sure I was seeing this correctly. 8:35. Yep, hubsy left her here for me to get dressed, cleaned and out the door.

I lay there slowly getting upset that I couldn't sleep the extra 20 minutes til my alarm. I thought to myself "He must have been really tired this morning and decided to let me handle the daycare drive. Ok, well I can understand that. If he was nice enough to leave me a note or send me a quick text showing me that he understands that this will inevitably mess up my day, if he shows in anyway that he gets what I might go through this morning, I will forgive him."

No text. No note. No symbolence anywhere in our home that he gave one single thought to how this would effect my day.

Now I am Pissed.

We just freaking had this talk on Saturday, how he just needs to show me a little bit that he cares about my time, and what I have to do, or might do. And yet, here he did it again. No care, not even a thought across his mind that he might have just put me in any kind of bind. Fucking Selfish. UGH.

So then of course I couldn't find my keys, and wasted an hour looking for them. His fault.

I hit my head getting into the car in a rush. His fault.

Now it is eleven, I got NOTHING done this morning around the house or work wise, I have to get in the shower or I will miss my appointment and I didn't even have my coffee yet. His fault.

Damn.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Ravelry

Ravelry.com is a great site for knitters and crocheters to come together and share projects and patterns. It's sort of like the "Myspace" for crafters. I found the site in April when I taught myself to knit, and was thrilled to see all the fun things you could make and all the people in my area who knitted that I could knit with too.

I have been pretty busy as of late, with the surrogacy transfer so close (next Wednesday) and haven't been able to finish many of my projects let alone post them to Ravlery, but I was particularly proud of this hat. Lorelei asked speccifically that I make it, and it was the first time I ever tried the little bobbles!



Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Lyrical Tuesday

Today's lyrics are from the best song for me Circus. I love to listening to this song because it truly explains exactly the type of woman I am. Ask anyone who knows me and they will tell you I am "drama queen" who loves attention and commands the room. I lost that for awhile, but it's all coming back now, and I love it!




Circus
Britney Spears

There's only two types of people in the world
the ones that entertain
and the ones that observe

well baby I'm a put-on-a-show kinda girl
dont like the backseat
gotta be first

I'm like the ringleader
I call the shots
I'm like a fire cracker
I make it hot
when I put on a show

I feel the adrenaline moving through my veins
spotlight on me and I'm ready to break
I'm like a performer, the dancefloor is my stage
better be ready, hope that ya feel the same

all eyes on me in the center of the ring
just like a circus
when I crack that whip, everybody gonna trip
just like a circus
don't stand there watching me
follow me, show me what you can do
everybody let go, we can make a dance floor
just like a circus

there's only two types of guys out there
Ones that can hang with me
and ones that are scared
so baby, I hope that you came prepared
I run a tight ship, so beware

I'm like the ringleader
I call the shots
I'm like a fire cracker
I make it hot
when I put on a show

I feel the adrenaline moving through my veins
spotlight on me and I'm ready to break
I'm like a performer, the dancefloor is my stage
better be ready, hope that ya feel the same

all eyes on me in the center of the ring
just like a circus
when I crack that whip, everybody gonna trip
just like a circus
don't stand there watching me
follow me, show me what you can do
everybody let go, we can make a dance floor
just like a circus

let's go
let me see what you can do
I'm running this (like,like a circus)
yeah, like a what (like a circus)

Monday, January 5, 2009

Me? In Jail?

I received this in a text this afternoon from my good friend Brooke:

"Play Along; You saw me in a police car, what do you think I got arrested for? Answer and forward to see what kind of crimes you commit."

Here were the responses I received.

Brooke: "Probably the same as me, verbal assault and drunken disorderly"

Ape: "Bank Robbery"

Em-o: "Indecent Exposure!"

Todd: "Being dumb, like normal"

That was fun. For those of you who know, post a comment on why you think I would be arrested, and have fun posting this on your blog too!

Saturday, January 3, 2009

It's Been A Hell Of A Year

This year soo many things happened so stealing this from a friend, here is my year!


Lo turned TWO years old.

I got my cute baby Kodiak. SO SWEET!

Lo gets her first pool. Nice swim trunks daddy!

I turned 26. Yikes!! Another margarita please!

Lo got a bitchin' tattoo. (temporary of course)

Mark and I celerated 1 year in our home.

I decided to become a surrogate mother! (Transfer January 13)

Mark celebrates 28 with great friends!

Tinkerbell visted from Neverland.

I started my own photography business. Maryelizabethphotography.com

And finally. . .
We hosted our first Christmas!


Wow, what a year! I had forgotten so many things, and there were TOO many pictures to show! Hope you had as great a year as I!

Happy 2009!

Christmas Time

Last year on Christmas we woke Lo up at 5 am to open her presents. Why so early? We needed to be at my mom's house one hour away before my little sister woke up at about 8 am. Then from there we went to my MIL's and then to my grandmother's house. It was all too much. Not only were we exhausted, but Lo was so overstimulated that she barely enjoyed any of it.

This year however, hubsy and I decided to host Christmas at our house, and anyone that wanted to see us would have to come here.

I was so excited to have the holiday here, and we invited my mom, stepdad, sisters, and brother all to stay over at our house on Christmas Eve. That way we could all be together on my mom's birthday (Christmas Eve) and the kids (Lo and my 5 year old sister) could open the presents as soon as they woke up. It was great.

Hubsy, my brother, and sister (24) stayed up late to play Santa. We wrapped all the presents in special Santa paper, ate the cookies, and continued the tradition of writing a note from Santa.

When the kids woke up I, paper was flying everywhere and giggles filled the air.

Lo opening her gifts. Diapers!

Lo and Auntie P opening gifts.

Auntie P is giving Lo a makeover.

After her makeover. So Glamorous!


I cooked my first Christmas dinner of Ham, Deviled Eggs, and green bean casserole and sweet potato mash with marshmallows. (It took me three tries to brown the marshmallows on top, my broiler burned the first two!) I was really happy, and my brother caught it all with my camera which means, hooray! I am in some of the shots!!!!
 
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